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I just did not agree with there assessments.<br /><br />Sadly, I feel it is a form of unhealthy brainwashing on vulnerable patients who are desperate for help.<br /><br />I am relieved they said no to my talking part .<br /><br />I am going to be brave and go it alone.<br /><br />Don’t be afraid of your inner strength.<br /><br />You don’t need these people with their arrogance .<br /><br />I believe they do not care about u but want to fix u because they presume there is nothing else! Arrogance!. They are not god!<br /><br />Believe in yourself.<br /><br />RuthRuthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13215170108504122861noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-3506743242035673092018-03-27T02:39:12.933-04:002018-03-27T02:39:12.933-04:00I know this is an old blog and entry, but hopefull...I know this is an old blog and entry, but hopefully you or someone else can find it and rxchange thoughts. I'm in a situation where I have trouble finding real answers.<br /><br />I have bpd and have been trying to recover for many many years. Except for better coping skills not much was happening in my healing until about two years ago.<br /><br />I experienced a bad crisis and was about to throw in the towel, but then I had the oportunity to try EMDR.<br /><br />I knew that underneath the anxiety and chaos was at least some amount of sadness and grief. EMDR tapped in to the grief that had to be worked through to resolve my current crisis, but I suspect it was linked to sometä even greater grief at my core.<br /><br />It's benn two years of grieving and crying for many days every week and I feel like it's never going to end. I do notice improvement in my functioning and although I still get triggered the bodily sensations aren't as overwhelming as before and I don't dissociate most of my time anymore.<br /><br />Still, I don't really know what I'm doing, if this work is going to resolve anything or if I'm just trapped in a never ending crying spell. Can't find any research to confirm that resolution of bpd is done by grieving the past either... just some blog posts, like yours.<br /><br />I would be happy to hear your thoughts, if you've thought about this further or have had any further experiences regarding this core grief.TwoFacedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09031625159556484934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-89747359756519136312017-12-03T18:40:55.040-05:002017-12-03T18:40:55.040-05:00Oh God I relate to this! I had four years of one t...Oh God I relate to this! I had four years of one to one DBT with an NHS psychologist. I hadn't been diagnosed with BPD because I didn't understand the questions in the Millon test, but the psychologist suspected I had the condition because I do obsessive mild yet disfiguring self harm and had a traumatic childhood. I never understood the logic behind fully experiencing difficult emotions, whilst not dealing with the causes,as this seemed to assume the emotion has no purpose. <br />I was also told that the emotion would fade if i allowed myself to experience it fully. This did NOT happen, so I was told I must have <br />disrupted the process. I have experienced 4 years of intense emotional overwhelm and just feel the "skill" I have learned is how to suffer in widescreen! DBT is definitely not for me, and at present I am working on NOT practising it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-13229369254352029622017-10-27T14:16:23.224-04:002017-10-27T14:16:23.224-04:00It's a been a year since my BPD guy gutted me....It's a been a year since my BPD guy gutted me. He went from being prince charming to an asshole literally overnight. I didn't understand why but after reading more on the disorder I do. It' been a year. Is it okay to ask why? Or am I opening his/my wounds in a search for closure? My hope is for peace, understanding, and compassion between us. Is he entirely without empathy?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-56574858435146297192016-07-25T03:47:59.108-04:002016-07-25T03:47:59.108-04:00Yes if my defense mechanisms kick in a can very qu...Yes if my defense mechanisms kick in a can very quickly cut off any empathy and can become highly manipulative and vengeful, I believe at this point I become sociopathic. I always need to even the score before I can find peace. Then I return to being my usual, happy go lucky self. I never feel guilt for getting my own back on people who cross me though.Wobblygobladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16742926826673925149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-48480870612513513042016-06-27T11:19:59.222-04:002016-06-27T11:19:59.222-04:00I am hoping I might find some guidance from the bp...I am hoping I might find some guidance from the bpd community on how I might help a friend of mine. My friend has been raped on several occasions by her husband and I have counseled her to leave him immediately. The problem is that she oftentimes has little regard for her own person so it is very difficult to know what to do. As a result of his attacks, she has contemplated suicide but has convinced herself that she is so dependent upon him that she doesn't know how to leave. Right now, she is numbing herself to her emotions and shutting down on me. How can I assist in helping her to decide to leave him? I greatly appreciate any advice offered.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-40828161709963269192016-06-27T11:18:10.763-04:002016-06-27T11:18:10.763-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-49524468038253628612016-03-31T08:37:34.238-04:002016-03-31T08:37:34.238-04:00Amazing project!!! Im in! Well what I hate about b...Amazing project!!! Im in! Well what I hate about borderline the most is the shame and guilt I feel about it! So I decided it has to go, I cant feel like a failure for the rest of my life...What I love about it is my special sensitivity which does not only make me very fragile, and often paranoid etc... but also super-receptive to the beauty of the world! Of all kind of beauty! I dont know many people how take so much pleasure in just staring at the sea for hrs, smelling flowers, petting small animals, swimming, touching, dancing, etc... or people who enjoy books or films to the extent that I do. I believe it would not be possible without my sensitivity, irrationality and all those which smart drs describe as part of a "serious mental Illness" :-9Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-75714938514265643312016-01-22T04:53:11.182-05:002016-01-22T04:53:11.182-05:00How can you really be proud about acting in a way ...How can you really be proud about acting in a way that destroys others? Being Queer destroys nothing by homophobic egos and bubbles. I've never ever met a BPD in my life that didn't attack or destroy other people on the regular.<br />RainFallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05860877569688239136noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-54250950534212306322016-01-22T04:52:46.166-05:002016-01-22T04:52:46.166-05:00How can you really be proud about acting in a way ...How can you really be proud about acting in a way that destroys others? Being Queer destroys nothing by homophobic egos and bubbles. I've never ever met a BPD in my life that didn't attack or destroy other people on the regular.<br />RainFallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05860877569688239136noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-51648070136429793042015-10-11T15:53:13.245-04:002015-10-11T15:53:13.245-04:00My husband is back!!! I had a problem with my husb...My husband is back!!! I had a problem with my husband 8 months ago,which lead to us apart. When he broke up with me,I was no longer myself,I felt so empty inside .Until a friend of mine told me about one of her spells that helped her in same problem too that she found on a television program. i emailed the spell caster and I told him my problem and I did what he asked me. To cut the story short,Before I knew what was happening,not up to 48 hours,my husband gave me a call and he come back to me and told me he was sorry about what has happened, I'm so grateful to this spell caster and i will not stop publishing his name on the internet just for the good work he has done for me.If you need his help,you can email him at (ezizaspellhome@gmail.com)or tel +2347068534025.....thank you sir great Dr.EZIZA for all that you do and i greatly appreciate that.sherryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03165903804115010609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-88043506709309908222015-06-27T10:42:23.243-04:002015-06-27T10:42:23.243-04:00I do not hate myself or my "borderline."...I do not hate myself or my "borderline." To clarify, I identify with the the majority classic borderline symptoms, but I have not been diagnosed or see any reason to be "diagnosed" by anyone. I do not manifest my symptoms, but I feel them and I understand why other borderlines manifest. <br /><br />I like that borderline has been identified with symptoms. It makes me feel understood in a way and helps me identify where I can find other people who may understand. Usually my experience with other borderlines has probably been that we trigger each other. So just like people with autism, aspergers or actually people in general, the more alike we are, the more we will probably get on each others nerves. <br /><br />We are probably playing the same underlying power games. It is not all about the power games, but we all need to feel a certain amount of personal power to feel confident in our autonomy. That is why when I worked with children with autism and the parent or my supervisor would say a child would do something "for control" like the child was doing something wrong, I could not help but think "of course they want some control. They are often so dependent on their family, that it is perfectly understandable why they might want some control." Also, we all know that "high-functioning" people more often abuse their power than people with neurological or psychological diagnoses. "High-functioning" people can be very unfair and usurp power and they feel they are entitled because they do so much to take care of their lower-functioning family members or community members. Same thing with politics. I am certainly not saying that all "high-functioning" people do this. There are plenty of modest high-functioning people who are willing to understand and help others without assuming that they in turn can judge others and be disrespectful if someone isn't measuring up in their opinion.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-86209196670930784322015-03-29T21:38:19.178-04:002015-03-29T21:38:19.178-04:00First, most people have no idea what BPD is or eve...First, most people have no idea what BPD is or even that it exists. Second, anyone with BPD that is doing even close to okay has every right to be proud.<br /><br />BPD sufferers need to organize the way other minority groups have, to educate the public and provide support for themselves and their own loved ones and supporters.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-63235863965233736602015-01-25T21:31:16.381-05:002015-01-25T21:31:16.381-05:00I'm currently reading your book and as a BPD &...I'm currently reading your book and as a BPD "survivor" it's difficult for me to read as I identify so closely with you, but it's so well written and compelling I can't stop reading. Thank you for being so open.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05939004195708564798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-52391040155113644492014-11-16T23:08:16.068-05:002014-11-16T23:08:16.068-05:00Hi,
Thanks for sharing information about dialectic...Hi,<br />Thanks for sharing information about dialectical behaviour therapy . Now i know that how it help us.<br /><br /><br />Thanks<br /><br /><a href="http://www.theexpatcounsellors.com/therapies/dbt-therapy/" rel="nofollow">Dialectical Behavioral Therapy</a><br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01349812842233761697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-77150921556430901962014-09-29T20:08:37.251-04:002014-09-29T20:08:37.251-04:00Where in Belgium did you find a DBT program?Where in Belgium did you find a DBT program?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-14658758351685544572014-04-25T15:10:31.944-04:002014-04-25T15:10:31.944-04:00As a student of western philosophy I totally agree...As a student of western philosophy I totally agree that there is an overall quality of existential emptiness in DBT. You ward off emotions at the pass with skills and try to avoid upsetting/stressful situations. You are left rolling with life's punches and trying to get by(anyone remember meursault?). I did nine months of DBT and only had symptom improvement...no ability to relate to others on a deeper level and an overall feeling of hopelessness. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-28266748463863872932014-04-23T23:36:15.796-04:002014-04-23T23:36:15.796-04:0044 y/o female here with recent diagnosis.
I have...44 y/o female here with recent diagnosis. <br /><br />I have recently been placed in a DBT program and so cannot comment as to whether or not it 'works'. I have not had success with therapy in the past (like yourself, I am often seen as high functioning however, I get annoyed at being told how high functioning I am because therapists tend to look at external indicators for that - job/career/degrees etc when, in actuality, my life is usually exploding or recovering from an explosion). <br /><br />My concerns about DBT are twofold: I have been given a social worker/therapist (I never knew the 2 could be combined) that I meet with individually and I can already see that she is nice lady, with good intentions, but I think I already confuse and worry her because I drag every conversation into an existential panic .... so much for mindfulness! <br /><br />I haven't done group but again, it is run by a woman and they tell me all the patients (?) are women - perhaps this will be a good thing but I have concerns around it. I also have concerns that DBT is trying to treat the behaviour/responses rather than look at the cause/s of said behaviour/responses.<br /><br />I was interested to read Jim Beam's post above re men and DBT. I have no idea why there seems to be a genderisation of DBT, or whether this is just my perception. What I do know is that Buddhism and the ilk is probably going to be somewhat lost on me. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-29180525902517858902014-03-20T16:23:05.200-04:002014-03-20T16:23:05.200-04:00Hi Randi,
Could you please elaborate on your qual...Hi Randi,<br /><br />Could you please elaborate on your qualifications, other than being a journalist? I can find no mention of any sort of therapeutic qualifications you have. I understand that you co-authored (with a clinician) a very popular book, but is it your assertion that you are a qualified expert in BPD?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339764994253890828.post-87087776704258585652014-03-09T07:27:08.609-04:002014-03-09T07:27:08.609-04:00I'm a 46 year old male who was diagnosed when ... I'm a 46 year old male who was diagnosed when I was 19. I've had CBT and psychotherapy from two therapists up until 2011. In 2011, I moved to a new area and took DBT for 10 months before I was removed for drug use (the DBT therapists deemed it excessive). That was a year ago and I'm amazed I'm still alive. The invalidation of being kicked out of therapy was the biggest emotional blow I have ever received in my life. Both therapists said there was nothing more they could do for me. I felt like I was abandoned all over again and my emotional response was frightening. Since then I stopped leaving the house, I have not bathed once, I stopped seeing my children and have given up completely. DBT is extremely dangerous if it doesn't work for you because if you are removed it sends the message that you are a hopeless case. DBT's dirty little secret is that it has never been proven to work on men. I emailed Marsha's office and they said they have some "anecdotal" evidence of it working on men but nothing published. So be careful with DBT because I'm far, far worse today than before I started it. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04347161191397434329noreply@blogger.com